Comments on: What is a “Hot Wife?” http://www.hotwivesonline.com The sexual adventures of a very special Hot Wife and the blog musings of her loving cuckold husband. Fri, 21 Nov 2008 03:47:19 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc By: Hot Sally http://www.hotwivesonline.com/what-is-a-hotwife/#comment-148489 Hot Sally Sat, 08 Nov 2008 19:26:07 +0000 http://74.52.141.114/~hotwives/?page_id=324#comment-148489 Great definition, but to my hubby, the best part is the creampie! Great definition, but to my hubby, the best part is the creampie!

]]> By: HammerHeart http://www.hotwivesonline.com/what-is-a-hotwife/#comment-147351 HammerHeart Thu, 06 Nov 2008 03:41:25 +0000 http://74.52.141.114/~hotwives/?page_id=324#comment-147351 Excellent explanation Allie - Thank You! We need more experienced, well-spoken people in this growing lifestyle to help establish a clear understanding of what this is all about, because there is a lot of misunderstanding and confusion about it. For those of you who may wonder how a Husband could not only allow, but crave this lifestyle, I will para-phrase a quote from Nancy Friday's book entitled, "Men In Love": ~To the Man, Love (for his wife) + Jealousy (over her sex with another male) = Intense Passion~. HammerHeart Excellent explanation Allie - Thank You!

We need more experienced, well-spoken people in this growing lifestyle to help establish a clear understanding of what this is all about, because there is a lot of misunderstanding and confusion about it.

For those of you who may wonder how a Husband could not only allow, but crave this lifestyle, I will para-phrase a quote from Nancy Friday’s book entitled, “Men In Love”:
~To the Man, Love (for his wife) + Jealousy (over her sex with another male) = Intense Passion~.

HammerHeart

]]> By: rb http://www.hotwivesonline.com/what-is-a-hotwife/#comment-133772 rb Fri, 03 Oct 2008 15:11:49 +0000 http://74.52.141.114/~hotwives/?page_id=324#comment-133772 This posting does an excellent job of describing our journey. I have been serving my Wife for nearly three years, and we have talked about her cuckolding me and she has now decided to date and find someone (or more than one) to take as a lover. i am not allowed, nor do i want to, have other partners...In fact, she has hinted that if she can find a man who can satisfy her need for a long lasting large cock and a relationship she enjoys, She might not allow me to fuck her anymore, though I will still get to service her orally. I believe this is how things should be and am a very happy man. For more... http://wifeworshipper.blogspot.com thanks rb This posting does an excellent job of describing our journey. I have been serving my Wife for nearly three years, and we have talked about her cuckolding me and she has now decided to date and find someone (or more than one) to take as a lover. i am not allowed, nor do i want to, have other partners…In fact, she has hinted that if she can find a man who can satisfy her need for a long lasting large cock and a relationship she enjoys, She might not allow me to fuck her anymore, though I will still get to service her orally.

I believe this is how things should be and am a very happy man.

For more… http://wifeworshipper.blogspot.com

thanks
rb

]]> By: new hotwife http://www.hotwivesonline.com/what-is-a-hotwife/#comment-109777 new hotwife Thu, 31 Jul 2008 13:01:15 +0000 http://74.52.141.114/~hotwives/?page_id=324#comment-109777 im glad i found this site. me and my husband of 4 years are just starting this lifestyle. i can tell you that my nature is to be totally monogamous and i expect the same from him. our sex life had always been lacking due to some of his "issues" and when he brought up the idea of me "cheating" on him i was devastated. why would he want that if he loves me so much? is he just saying this because HE wants to cheat on me and this would justify that? until this past week he has always been kind of cold and reserved towards me sexually, but now that i have been entertaining (but not yet doing) this thing for him he is super responsive to me and very attentive... im kind of hoping i can get out of actually doing it with someone else, i cant imagine wanting anyone else, but if my husband is going to start treating me THIS good, then maybe it will be ok. by the way, my husband is not weak or passive, he is actually quite dominant and ive always been the submissive one... im glad i found this site. me and my husband of 4 years are just starting this lifestyle. i can tell you that my nature is to be totally monogamous and i expect the same from him. our sex life had always been lacking due to some of his “issues” and when he brought up the idea of me “cheating” on him i was devastated. why would he want that if he loves me so much? is he just saying this because HE wants to cheat on me and this would justify that?

until this past week he has always been kind of cold and reserved towards me sexually, but now that i have been entertaining (but not yet doing) this thing for him he is super responsive to me and very attentive… im kind of hoping i can get out of actually doing it with someone else, i cant imagine wanting anyone else, but if my husband is going to start treating me THIS good, then maybe it will be ok.

by the way, my husband is not weak or passive, he is actually quite dominant and ive always been the submissive one…

]]> By: Graham http://www.hotwivesonline.com/what-is-a-hotwife/#comment-96120 Graham Sat, 28 Jun 2008 01:20:19 +0000 http://74.52.141.114/~hotwives/?page_id=324#comment-96120 I am so please to have found this fantastic site. I am a macho, hetro guy who has been married for 16 years. My first feelings that I enjoyed the cuckold/hotwife scenario started many years ago, before we got married. I noticed that I was always reading storries about guys who let their wife have sex with other men. We got married and about a year after that my wife wanted to go on holiday to Crete with a female friend. I was a little worried but decided not to be a jealous husband to I did not stand in her way. My wife is Blonde, 5'3" with a good figure, large breats and an attractive face. A couple of days before her trip, while she was at work, I noticed her case under the bed with some shoes beside it. I could not help but notice that she had taken some of her sexiest shoes out of the closet to pack in her case. I could not help myself and decided to take a look in her case. The top of the case was fine. She had packed the usual holiday outfits and everything seemed fine, but when I lifted some of those items out of the way my heart skipped a beat. I found her sexiest stockings, bras, thongs, short thin dresses. I did not know how to feel. I thought I should feel jealous, and in a way I did as I knew she was bound to attract other men wearing those outfits. I was about to put everything back when I noticed a make-up bag in the corner of the case so I decided to take a look inside. That is when I knew that she wanted to find sex on her holiday. Among the make-up, lipstick etc I found a box with her name on it from the pharmacy with a date only a few days old. It contained a female contraceptive cap. In an instant I became totally turned on. My wife was going on holiday with a case full of sexy shoes, undies, stocking and I knew why. She never knew I looked in the case. I now know that she had sex with 3 guys on her holiday that year. I have hinted to her that it is one of my fantasies but she has never taken me up on it and always says that she would never try anything like that. If she only knew that I know everthing. Looking forward to looking at your site again. G I am so please to have found this fantastic site. I am a macho, hetro guy who has been married for 16 years. My first feelings that I enjoyed the cuckold/hotwife scenario started many years ago, before we got married. I noticed that I was always reading storries about guys who let their wife have sex with other men.

We got married and about a year after that my wife wanted to go on holiday to Crete with a female friend. I was a little worried but decided not to be a jealous husband to I did not stand in her way. My wife is Blonde, 5′3″ with a good figure, large breats and an attractive face.

A couple of days before her trip, while she was at work, I noticed her case under the bed with some shoes beside it. I could not help but notice that she had taken some of her sexiest shoes out of the closet to pack in her case. I could not help myself and decided to take a look in her case. The top of the case was fine. She had packed the usual holiday outfits and everything seemed fine, but when I lifted some of those items out of the way my heart skipped a beat. I found her sexiest stockings, bras, thongs, short thin dresses. I did not know how to feel. I thought I should feel jealous, and in a way I did as I knew she was bound to attract other men wearing those outfits. I was about to put everything back when I noticed a make-up bag in the corner of the case so I decided to take a look inside. That is when I knew that she wanted to find sex on her holiday. Among the make-up, lipstick etc I found a box with her name on it from the pharmacy with a date only a few days old. It contained a female contraceptive cap. In an instant I became totally turned on. My wife was going on holiday with a case full of sexy shoes, undies, stocking and I knew why.

She never knew I looked in the case. I now know that she had sex with 3 guys on her holiday that year. I have hinted to her that it is one of my fantasies but she has never taken me up on it and always says that she would never try anything like that. If she only knew that I know everthing.

Looking forward to looking at your site again.

G

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]]> By: Tom and Donna http://www.hotwivesonline.com/what-is-a-hotwife/#comment-42893 Tom and Donna Fri, 25 Jan 2008 22:28:58 +0000 http://74.52.141.114/~hotwives/?page_id=324#comment-42893 I came across your website by chance researching ideas about how to format our personal website. I enjoyed and agree with most of your defintion of "Hotwife" and showed my queen and she thought so as well. We have been on and off swingers up to this point. Limited by family obligations, work schedule and alot of phonies on swingers sites. Guys that think themselves having more or being more than they actually are, as Donna puts it.... "legends in thier own minds." Thus why we mutually decided to try creating a website to see how that works as far as getting what we/she wants. We are not the typical if there is such a thing, 'hotwife/cuckold' couple. Myself being nicely hung and pretty talented in bed and black. However I enjoy her taking a lover that fully able to satisfy her...something about watching her let loose with a guy that's able to stimulate her both body and mind. Watching as she flirts, slowly allowing her wild side or HOTWIFE to come out and play. Seeing her let loose sexually seducing and being seduced by another man. There is something very powerful about witnessing this transformation that gets me extremely aroused. Her dating Solo is something were still working out, the idea doesn't appeal to me as much as being there to watch and listen to her during the actual passion exchange. But there is something about having to wait and ponder what is happening that is a turn on also, especially if she brings home the evidence of sex. I came across your website by chance researching ideas about how to format our personal website. I enjoyed and agree with most of your defintion of “Hotwife” and showed my queen and she thought so as well. We have been on and off swingers up to this point. Limited by family obligations, work schedule and alot of phonies on swingers sites. Guys that think themselves having more or being more than they actually are, as Donna puts it…. “legends in thier own minds.” Thus why we mutually decided to try creating a website to see how that works as far as getting what we/she wants. We are not the typical if there is such a thing, ‘hotwife/cuckold’ couple. Myself being nicely hung and pretty talented in bed and black. However I enjoy her taking a lover that fully able to satisfy her…something about watching her let loose with a guy that’s able to stimulate her both body and mind. Watching as she flirts, slowly allowing her wild side or HOTWIFE to come out and play. Seeing her let loose sexually seducing and being seduced by another man. There is something very powerful about witnessing this transformation that gets me extremely aroused. Her dating Solo is something were still working out, the idea doesn’t appeal to me as much as being there to watch and listen to her during the actual passion exchange. But there is something about having to wait and ponder what is happening that is a turn on also, especially if she brings home the evidence of sex.

]]> By: Tom http://www.hotwivesonline.com/what-is-a-hotwife/#comment-39679 Tom Fri, 04 Jan 2008 19:24:33 +0000 http://74.52.141.114/~hotwives/?page_id=324#comment-39679 Perfect definition. My wife does this and I love it. Perfect definition. My wife does this and I love it.

]]> By: Lisa http://www.hotwivesonline.com/what-is-a-hotwife/#comment-37861 Lisa Sun, 23 Dec 2007 21:51:16 +0000 http://74.52.141.114/~hotwives/?page_id=324#comment-37861 This is by far the best definition of a "hotwife" I think I've ever run across. My husband began sharing his fantasies involving me and other men about ten years ago, and I must admit I was at first taken a bit a back by it. I had to agree with him that I found the thought of it exciting but that was about as far as it went. About two years ago, being still quite attractive and getting hit on regularly from guys even 'much' younger, and with my husband still sharing his 'fantasies' and making them even 'hotter' involving me with other guys that he knew I was attracted to and especially during 'sex', I began to rethink it all, and before long I was finding myself thinking about it more and more('every day'). After a rather long discussion one night over dinner we both agreed to the arrangement that I could have all the sexual freedom I pleased, but he would remain totally monogamous. I have to say our sex life now as well as our marriage is better than ever. He loves having me as not only his 'hot' wife, but also his 'hotwife', as I know now there is quite a 'difference', and he says he's happy now to have 'both'. He's much more attentive and romantic, and loves buying me sexy things to wear for my hot dates with other men. He also 'loves' me sharing all the 'details'. I agree that it is exciting because he's totally into it and I don't have to feel any guilt or regretful feelings. He loves the fact that I'm now always hot and turned on just with the 'possibilities', even if it's just a trip to the grocery store in summer wearing my little cut-offs and a skimpy halter top. I know it's certainly not for everyone, and if some of our friends and family knew about our arrangement they would 'shudder', but as long as my husband is encouraging it I'm having fun, and probably will continue to do so! This is by far the best definition of a “hotwife” I think I’ve ever run across. My husband began sharing his fantasies involving me and other men about ten years ago, and I must admit I was at first taken a bit a back by it. I had to agree with him that I found the thought of it exciting but that was about as far as it went. About two years ago, being still quite attractive and getting hit on regularly from guys even ‘much’ younger, and with my husband still sharing his ‘fantasies’ and making them even ‘hotter’ involving me with other guys that he knew I was attracted to and especially during ’sex’, I began to rethink it all, and before long I was finding myself thinking about it more and more(’every day’). After a rather long discussion one night over dinner we both agreed to the arrangement that I could have all the sexual freedom I pleased, but he would remain totally monogamous. I have to say our sex life now as well as our marriage is better than ever. He loves having me as not only his ‘hot’ wife, but also his ‘hotwife’, as I know now there is quite a ‘difference’, and he says he’s happy now to have ‘both’. He’s much more attentive and romantic, and loves buying me sexy things to wear for my hot dates with other men. He also ‘loves’ me sharing all the ‘details’. I agree that it is exciting because he’s totally into it and I don’t have to feel any guilt or regretful feelings. He loves the fact that I’m now always hot and turned on just with the ‘possibilities’, even if it’s just a trip to the grocery store in summer wearing my little cut-offs and a skimpy halter top. I know it’s certainly not for everyone, and if some of our friends and family knew about our arrangement they would ’shudder’, but as long as my husband is encouraging it I’m having fun, and probably will continue to do so!

]]> By: sm http://www.hotwivesonline.com/what-is-a-hotwife/#comment-25288 sm Sun, 14 Oct 2007 17:35:40 +0000 http://74.52.141.114/~hotwives/?page_id=324#comment-25288 Nice description, recently found I enjoy my 'hot wife' it is a strange but erotic feeling knowing she is pleasuring other men the satisfaction I get from her enjoyment is overwhelming. ;) Nice description, recently found I enjoy my ‘hot wife’ it is a strange but erotic feeling knowing she is pleasuring other men the satisfaction I get from her enjoyment is overwhelming.

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