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Chastity device feedback roundup

You guys left all kinds of great advice and stories of your experiences when I asked for feedback about chastity devices. Thanks so much!

Here are some of the highlights of what you said in email:

Ruby writes:

I bought a CB6000 for my husband. It’s great to play with, but we don’t really use it for long periods of time. I have him put it on when I want him to focus on getting his work done on the computer and not get distracted by looking at pictures of me having sex and masturbating. It does wonders for keeping his attention on the task at hand.

hub4ck writes:

Sometimes I wear it all day long at work and the fun goes all day with sexy text and phone calls. I have worn it for 3-4 days all day and night a couple of times. It’s fun to get all worked up for days on end and not be able to get “relief”, my only thoughts are to satisfy her, I just focus all that locked up sexual energy into orally pleasing her. Of course I want satisfaction, but I don’t get it and the headgame goes on for another day.

Little Man P writes:

Finally, i have not worn my device long enough for a true behavioral change to occur (i wish!). My wife is too sensitive to my pain to allow that to occur. However, I believe that with prolonged wear, the male will have to alter his thought patterns to eliminate painful semi-erections and manage his inner arousal. Behavior modification is a wonderful and powerful thing!

Thanks for the great email everyone! I’d love to hear more about your experiences and how you incorporate it into your fantasy (or real life) play.

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Posted by David | Jun. 30, 2008 | Posted in: Advice, Chastity, Cuckolds, Sex Toys | Please post a comment. »

Craigslist: Curious About Cuckolding?

I monitor Craigslist personals pretty frequently for well-written ads by couples or single men interested in this lifestyle. They’re few and far between, believe me. I’m all for getting to the point, but most of the ads out there are not only too short, they are just mindless and unappealing.

Every now and then, a thoughtful one worthy to share with the group comes through my feed reader. Here’s one from a single man in the Chicago suburbs. Men, take note: this is a great example of how to write an ad that will get noticed. Craigslist ads expire quickly, so here’s a reprint:

Are You A Couple Curious About Cuckolding? - m4mw (Western Surburbs)
Date: 2008-06-22, 7:27AM CDT

Cuckolding is not for everyone.

But for those couples lucky enough to have a strong marriage, a desire for white-hot sexual play, and a husband who has that special gene that turns him on when his loved one is taken by another, this can be the ultimate adventure.

I am seeking such a couple to develop a cuck relationship. This happens one excruciatingly erotic step at a time, as the powerful sexual energy of cuckolding draws on the well of the mind to explode into the physical play. What all this means to the cuckold is as powerful as what is actually done by his wife.

This would involve me dating the wife, who has her pleasure at her discretion, and controls how much she tells her husband, allows him to participate, and requires him to support her. Rules can be developed, usually ones that make the cuck very aroused, and the lovers smile.

I am not seeking an invitation just to have me come over and have sex with the wife in front of the husband (although this may indeed happen in cuckolding). Often this is arranged by the husband, who is in charge, lining up a lay for the wife. That’s just swinging, which is fun, but not what I’m seeking. Cuckolding is an intense relationship adjustment between husband and wife in which she is in control and she has her pleasure with another at her whim, while controlling the husband’s pleasure with her.

As the lover, I enjoy the wife in a special way, and enjoy participating to some degree. I’m very creative and enjoy helping the wife sexually torture her husband with our relationship … torture in the good sense, of course, that he is hard, hyperventilating and in agony waiting for the chance to have some relief with her.

Experience is not necessary. Sincerity and willingness to explore safely and sanely is. As always, this must be 100 percent discreet. I very much prefer couples who are emotionally mature and have a good relationship and good personalities.

It is a given that if the husband is not a cuck, he will not be convinced to do so and this will almost never happen. The wife can be convinced to participate in time, given a stepwise development. But a cuck is almost born, not made. There are many men who secretly are deeply aroused at the thought of their wives truly enjoying another man to the exclusion of the husband’s intimate needs. As with many forms of D/s and other sexual adventures, this becomes a paradox: The prime determinant of cuckolding is the cuck, who ultimately has the least power and sometimes the greatest erotic experience. However, this is also so hot that this notice should probably also be in the m4w section as well.

If this is interesting to you, drop me a line and we’ll chat. You don’t have to be married and you don’t have to live nearby. Because this involves a great deal of verbal / relational play as well as realtime dating, this could be done at some distance.

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Posted by David | Jun. 26, 2008 | Posted in: Advice, Craigslist, Cuckolds, Personals | 2 Comments »

Introducing Hot Wife Calliope

Longtime fan of the blog and frequent commenter Lupo has sent us some photos of his awesome hotwife Calliope. He writes:

Hi David! I thought I would send in a few pictures of Calliope to one of my favorite sites. I guess you could say I am new to being cuckolded, but not entirely new to the lifestyle. My wife has started seeing some one. He has fucked her better than I have, and she loves it! I’m hoping to see him taking her some more very soon.

He sent some snapshots of her from awhile back, as well as some fun shots of her with hotwivesonline.com written across her ample chest from last night. Eeek! I hope that’s not permanent marker!

Check her out and post your thoughts in the comments!

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Posted by David | Jun. 24, 2008 | Posted in: Calliope, Hot Wives, Photos | 3 Comments »

Hot Wife Sara: Good Karma

Summer’s hitting hard. I know most people hate heat, but there’s something about the sweat and the exposed flesh that make me grateful for the blazing heat. So, on to the juicy news. You’re not going to believe me when I tell you the good karma I’ve received lately. It must be all those van pools I’ve coordinated! Jeff and I were shopping for day camp for one our little guys, and I was meeting with people, going all over town to see facilities, etc… effectively, shopping for a place where he can be entertained by someone other than me for a few hours a day! I was losing hope, but I emailed a place, and got a prompt call back from a man with a delicious sounding voice. As he was telling me about rates and daily sports activities, I was imagining him milking his cock into my mouth. I grabbed Jeff, put this guy on speaker phone and started to grind on hubby’s lap.

We meet this guy (Coach Link is his name.. no joke!!! That’s what all the kids call him) about a month ago, and he is a tight, firm guy who seems to always wear sports gear (and I’ve been trying to make out his package, hoping his name was some indication of an enormous cock). I started flirting right away. I wanted a taste of him, and I was going to have to be aggressive because he was unusually professional :P.

I’ve been leisurely picking up and dropping off my kid for about 2 weeks (making sure I get a little alone time with the Coach each day) and he’s just started to soften up… but it’s taken a lot of cleavage and a lot of inappropriate touches on the leg to get anything beside a handshake and a smile out of the guy. Just yesterday I caught him looking longer than he ought to have, and I think I just may have cracked him!

Well, he’s my pet project for now. I’m not sure how much longer I can hint… Jeff’s assured me that no man can resist, and that he’s looking forward to watching Coach Link fuck me senseless.

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Posted by Sara | Jun. 23, 2008 | Posted in: Hot Wives, Sara, Wife Sharing | 5 Comments »

My Twitter updates for 2008-06-20

Getting kind of curious about male chastity devices….hmmm. Anyone have any experiences? #

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Posted by David | Jun. 20, 2008 | Posted in: Twitter | Please post a comment. »

Women’s Penis Size Preference Chart

I found this very interesting piece of research today on PenisSizeDebate.com (via Buzzfeed, via Huffington Post). No, it’s not some new version of Minesweeper either. They’ve created a heat-map chart of the ideal penis size that women prefer on two axes, circumference vs. length. I’m not sure how scientific their survey was, but this chart certainly looks compelling doesn’t it?

I’d love to hear how/where you guys measure up. Are you an A, B, C, D, E? And where are you on the chart?

Me? I’d have to get officially measured with a tape measure, but I can comfortably say I’ll end up being a C, maybe borderline D. Where are you? Post your grade (and measurements if you have them) in the comments!

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Posted by David | Jun. 20, 2008 | Posted in: David, Miscellaneous | 11 Comments »

Swingtown

Is anyone out there watching this new show? Could someone bring me up to speed, if it’s worth watching? I’ve seen a little of the hype, but not sure if it has lived up to it. Let me know!

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Posted by David | Jun. 20, 2008 | Posted in: Miscellaneous, Swinging | 4 Comments »

Chastity device advice, anyone? I need help.

I’m interested in learning more about other peoples’ experiences, cuckold or not, with different male chastity devices, particularly with a CB-6000 chastity cage. If you have any first-hand experience with this, or other similar male chastity devices, I’d love to hear from you. I’m not saying I’m looking for one–I’m just saying I’m interested in learning more. Please send me an email, or post some thoughts in the comments.

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Posted by David | Jun. 20, 2008 | Posted in: Advice, Chastity, Cuckolds, David | 8 Comments »

Pregnant hot wife update: Carol at 17 weeks

Hot wife Carol sent me a new photo last night of her pregnancy’s progress, with the news that she is farther along than she initially thought. One thing that is definitely pretty far along are her tits, which were big to begin with! If you ask me, there’s nothing quite like how the growing belly accents the growing breasts. You can check out her past updates in Carol’s photo archive.

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Posted by David | Jun. 10, 2008 | Posted in: Carol, Hot Wives, Photos, Pregnancy | 3 Comments »

Hot Wife Voicemail: Stephanie’s fetish revealed

In Hot Wife Stephanie’s newest voicemail, we find out a little about her fetish for recording herself having sex. And so that explains why she wanted me to post her voicemails recordings in the first place.

So, give this one a listen (MP3, 2:28, 292 KB), and everything suddenly makes sense. LOL

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Posted by David | Jun. 09, 2008 | Posted in: Audio, Hot Wives, Stephanie | 1 Comment »