I am the loving, adoring husband of my unfaithful wife Karen.
Here’s my story. When I was dating Karen, I was extremely jealous. I’d obsess over the possibility she was attracted to other guys and I’d try to manipulate things to keep her from being around potential rivals. She really hated it when I jealous, but I couldn’t help it.
When I got married, my wife revealed to me that she’d cheated during our courtship. She had deliberately defied my jealousy. What’s more, she also revealed that the guys she went with were super attractive and great lovers and she had extremely intense orgasms. When she told me this, I became nauseated and almost vomited. Over the next few months, I contemplated divorcing her as I went through feelings of anger, jealousy, deep hurt, confusion, and depression. Karen assured me that she would not cheat during our marriage, so even though I wasn’t sure our relationship could ever recover, I stayed with her and kept trying to understand.
One day when we were talking about it, Karen said something that struck me odd. She said that I should try even harder to be a good husband if another man threatened our marriage. I was shocked. I told her the opposite was true, and I was horrified at the thought that she might think she could get away with cheating, and having me try harder than ever to be a good husband. That, I thought, would be the ultimate humiliation.
Over time, Karen’s statement stayed with me. As much as it humiliated me and I wanted to dismiss it and contradict it, it resonated with something deep inside me. Then something else happened that I shocked me even more. I started having dreams in which I cooperated with her while she visited and had sex with other men. I was humiliated that some part of my mind was accepting Karen’s potential infidelity. But, … over time these dreams became more and more appealing and exciting. And Karen’s statement about me trying harder to be a good husband kept getting more and more appealing. This was all a tremendous relief to me. Feeling constant jealousy is stressful and miserable. Being turned on feels much better!
After months of struggling with these feelings, I finally admitted it to Karen. She was surprised and intrigued, not angry. However, she knew how jealous I was and didn’t trust me to really be able to handle such an arrangement in reality. For the next few years, it just remained a fantasy that we’d talk about occasionally.
One day, Karen told me she’d been super horny lately. It occurred to me that perhaps it was another man that was getting to her. I responded as calmly and naturally as I could, asking her who she was thinking about. Karen paused for a moment. I knew she was debating whether to risk being open with me. Then she admitted that she was attracted to many men and had been fantasizing more and more about sleeping with them.
In the years before, Karen and I had both gotten adjusted to the idea and now the time was right. I was sure I was ready to be cuckolded and Karen now trusted me. Karen and I sat together discussing it, with lots of kissing and hugging. We agreed that I would remain faithful but she was free to pursue any sexual relationship she wished. We discussed what would probably be the best situations for her, but I gave up all control. It was completely up to her and whatever lucky man she seduced to determine what she would do.
This completely reinvigorated our marriage. I felt no jealousy, only love and excitement.
Karen went on frequent business trips. The next time she traveled, she met a man at a beach resort. She told me they walked along the beach holding hands and they kissed on the beach. It was now becoming real and I was put to the test. When she told me, I felt only love for her. I loved knowing another man’s lips had been on my wife’s lips. In fact, I was actually disappointed it hadn’t gone further.
The next time she traveled, Karen met a man she found irresistible. They ended up back in her hotel room. She wasn’t sure she’d sleep with him, but he charmed her. They started making out and she stroked the bulge in his pants and then took his cock out. They went mad for each other. She got so hot she thought she might faint. He fucked her to several intense orgasms.
When I heard what happened, I was intensely turned on and I was even more in love with Karen than ever before. I started trying to be the best husband on Earth and loving it. What I’d once thought would be hell was now heaven.
I began eagerly encouraging Karen to get a boyfriend in our home town. I loved the idea of a more immediate “threat” and I wanted her to have sex outside the marriage more frequently. In fact, I wanted her to find a big, strong, virile man with a big cock who would fuck her silly and who’d be able to put me in my place if I complained! Within a few months, Karen started dating in our home town. Soon she had a lover who was just such a man as I fantasized, a big macho guy named Wade who could fuck her into ecstasy. Wade fucks Karen several times a week. Nothing makes me hotter than the thought of Karen’s pussy stretching around Wade’s big cock.
I’m not happy with how it started, but I’m very happy with how it ended. The amazing thing is, just like you said, cuckolds often make the happiest, most loving husbands. Karen loves being pursued by men and loves feeling desirable and sexy, but she also has a loving husband at the same time. If it were up to me, this would become a normal part of marriage. I think many, many couples would be happy if the wife were free to date other men. I think once men are made to accept it, they’ll treat their wives like queens.
Thanks for sharing your story, Rod! That’s amazing, and I couldn’t agree more.