“Am I a sissy cuckold?”
“David, I am a sissy cuckold.”
I get a lot of emails and tweets from men that are very interested in their wives turning them into a sissy. Every time I read one of these message, I always have to stop and wonder just what exactly does he mean by sissy.
Does he want his wife to dress him up like a woman?
Does he want his wife to make fun of his penis?
Does he want his wife to make him wear panties?
Does he want his wife to fuck him with a strap-on dildo?
Does he not want his wife to have sex at all with him?
There is certainly an interest out there by some men that are into this lifestyle to sacrifice a certain amount of their masculinity in order to feel submissive, even inferior, to their wife and her potential boyfriends and lovers. There are men that have sacrificed not having a typical sexual relationship with their wife, or fantasize about doing so, in order to encourage and empower their wives to have sex with other men. And I’m all for it.
To a point.
I’m not particularly interested in completely losing my masculinity personally. I’m all for feeling inferior to one of Allie’s lovers, even submissive to him, but I’m not into being completely feminized, nor completely losing the privilege of having sex with my wife. For us though, it’s just one of many things in the cuckold “toybox” that we get out and play with.
And, you don’t have to be a sissy cuckold to be a cuckold. At all.
At the same time, I understand where men that enjoy this kind of fantasy play are coming from.
In the last several months, I’ve fantasized about Allie making me wear her panties to work, or while we’re out. And the few times she’s made me actually do it have been very, very hot.
Recently, one of Allie’s favorite things to do while we’re having sex is to tease me about my cock not being big enough for her, or that I’m not man enough for her. Plus, she does a fair amount of namecalling during sex. The one time she called me a “pussy” during sex drove me over the edge and I shot my load instantly. It was intense. If she called me a “sissy,” I imagine I’d lose it just as quickly.
I guess I can imagine myself in a pair of Allie’s panties, bedside while she’s getting plowed by one of her boyfriends, watching her get fucked by a superior, alpha male, with my hard-on peeking out the top of the silky waistband. It’s just not something I’m willing to commit to full-time, like some men are, nor does Allie want me to.
Still, that doesn’t stop her from whispering a reminder in my ear that I’m a pussy. From time to time.
What about you? Share your sissy cuckold fantasies in the comments. I’d love to hear them!
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Posted by David | Nov. 23, 2009 | Posted in Allie, Cuckolds, David, Small Penis? | 3 Comments »
What a great post! I love the cuckold toybox comment. I say let people be whoever they want to be. But as it pertains to our lifestyle…whatever works for each individual couple. I know that in our situation has many aspects to cuckolding. It took us a while but we are both ok with this because we can do whatever we want so long as we both stay on the same page. Oh and what married guy or any guy for that matter hasn’t tried on a pair of his wife or girlfriends panties? I think most have including yours truly.
Must be said- my cock never looks better than when inside my wife’s black lace panties!
Personally for me, this kind of thing is hot to look at, but I would never be able to commit to living the lifestyle for more then a day or so of it at a time, and even then it’d have to be like once every few months and only with firm ground rules, like not using the master bedroom for it, and I’d have to at least be in the same room.