I am fully responsible for putting it on and taking it off. She has the key, so while she’s at work I can’t remove it. I can actually pull out the back, without breaking it, but I can’t put it back in due to the POI insert. Pulling it out is painful, and with my nuts stuck between the ring and cage I can’t get hard, anyway, at least not without major pain. She sometimes has me wear it all night, and in those cases we often do “lock and lick” where I remain locked but lick her to sleep and during the night. The frustration is palpable.

It’s interesting to wear. My dick is quite large and completely fills the cage in every way. I have to use a q-tip to stuff parts of it in and keep it from pinching. During the night, erections are a bit painful at first and will wake me up. I often also wake up with a painful erection due to my wife gently tickling my balls to elicit that response. I can wear it during the day with no drawbacks and no problems whatsoever. It’s really not noticable unless my pants are very tight.

Physically, there’s a reservoir inside the body that collects semen for ejaculation, and it fills up naturally as time goes by, and a little quicker during stimulation of the penis. The amount of ejaculate in there seems to cause an increase in horniness, probably a feedback mechanism to get it drained. For me, it is completely filled at two weeks out. That means that I don’t really get any hornier after that (and to be honest, I’m not even sure if that would be possible as I’m gnawing the pillow at that point, anyway) and often some semen escapes after urination. Sometimes it’s quite a glob. There is no pleasure associated with that release, I just notice that the cage gets sticky.

If you’re wondering, my wife doesn’t go 2-4 weeks without sex, she loves intercourse and I’m still expected to perform, I just have to refrain from ejaculating. It gets to be quite difficult after a week, especially as she has orgasm after orgasm. I can’t easily describe how it messes with your mind, but my wife gets massaged, foot-kissed, everything. She’s very different when she’s not only my loving wife, but also the absolute only person on earth who can give me sexual pleasure.

We also have bondage sessions at least weekly. During that time I have to endure anywhere from an hour to two hours of tickling with no real breaks. After I’m worn out from struggling, it’s time for the teasing. She has ways of rubbing the penis head that make me beg her to stop, but she just giggles. And doesn’t stop, at least not as quickly as I’d like. She brings me to the brink of orgasm again and again, only to let it go and laugh. Needless to say, I rarely get to cum during that. If I do, she spends another 10-15 minutes rubbing me in post-orgasmic hell. If it’s night-time, she typically leaves me tied for the night, and I wake up being tickled or teased. Or both.

Anyway, the chastity device has done wonders for us. It’s not perfect, but it’s enough that with a little self-control I can go over a month without playing with myself, and that’a miracle for someone who had 2-3 orgasms daily before marriage.

By the way, accidental orgasms bring punishment. Usually, I will wait for 5 weeks before the next orgasm, and have to endure a particularly merciless tickling session. Last time it was 30 minutes non-stop fingernail tickling on the soles of the feet. I was incoherent when that was over. Needless to say, I do everything I can to prevent mistakes.