Chastity device feedback roundup
You guys left all kinds of great advice and stories of your experiences when I asked for feedback about chastity devices. Thanks so much!
Here are some of the highlights of what you said in email:
Ruby writes:
I bought a CB6000 for my husband. It’s great to play with, but we don’t really use it for long periods of time. I have him put it on when I want him to focus on getting his work done on the computer and not get distracted by looking at pictures of me having sex and masturbating. It does wonders for keeping his attention on the task at hand.
hub4ck writes:
Sometimes I wear it all day long at work and the fun goes all day with sexy text and phone calls. I have worn it for 3-4 days all day and night a couple of times. It’s fun to get all worked up for days on end and not be able to get “relief”, my only thoughts are to satisfy her, I just focus all that locked up sexual energy into orally pleasing her. Of course I want satisfaction, but I don’t get it and the headgame goes on for another day.
Little Man P writes:
Finally, i have not worn my device long enough for a true behavioral change to occur (i wish!). My wife is too sensitive to my pain to allow that to occur. However, I believe that with prolonged wear, the male will have to alter his thought patterns to eliminate painful semi-erections and manage his inner arousal. Behavior modification is a wonderful and powerful thing!
Thanks for the great email everyone! I’d love to hear more about your experiences and how you incorporate it into your fantasy (or real life) play.
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Posted by David | Jun. 30, 2008 | Posted in Advice, Chastity, Cuckolds, Sex Toys | 2 Comments »
I ordered my CB6K last night. I got the info that it was shipped out today. I ordered mine from.
https://www.slaveforlove.com/
I have a cb3k, and have had it for about a year and a half. My wife actually doesn’t like it, as she wishes I had the self-control to not masturbate without a device. She generally wants me to wait a month between my ejaculations, but usually after 2 weeks or so she wants to feel me cum and so I get to.
I am fully responsible for putting it on and taking it off. She has the key, so while she’s at work I can’t remove it. I can actually pull out the back, without breaking it, but I can’t put it back in due to the POI insert. Pulling it out is painful, and with my nuts stuck between the ring and cage I can’t get hard, anyway, at least not without major pain. She sometimes has me wear it all night, and in those cases we often do “lock and lick” where I remain locked but lick her to sleep and during the night. The frustration is palpable.
It’s interesting to wear. My dick is quite large and completely fills the cage in every way. I have to use a q-tip to stuff parts of it in and keep it from pinching. During the night, erections are a bit painful at first and will wake me up. I often also wake up with a painful erection due to my wife gently tickling my balls to elicit that response. I can wear it during the day with no drawbacks and no problems whatsoever. It’s really not noticable unless my pants are very tight.
Physically, there’s a reservoir inside the body that collects semen for ejaculation, and it fills up naturally as time goes by, and a little quicker during stimulation of the penis. The amount of ejaculate in there seems to cause an increase in horniness, probably a feedback mechanism to get it drained. For me, it is completely filled at two weeks out. That means that I don’t really get any hornier after that (and to be honest, I’m not even sure if that would be possible as I’m gnawing the pillow at that point, anyway) and often some semen escapes after urination. Sometimes it’s quite a glob. There is no pleasure associated with that release, I just notice that the cage gets sticky.
If you’re wondering, my wife doesn’t go 2-4 weeks without sex, she loves intercourse and I’m still expected to perform, I just have to refrain from ejaculating. It gets to be quite difficult after a week, especially as she has orgasm after orgasm. I can’t easily describe how it messes with your mind, but my wife gets massaged, foot-kissed, everything. She’s very different when she’s not only my loving wife, but also the absolute only person on earth who can give me sexual pleasure.
We also have bondage sessions at least weekly. During that time I have to endure anywhere from an hour to two hours of tickling with no real breaks. After I’m worn out from struggling, it’s time for the teasing. She has ways of rubbing the penis head that make me beg her to stop, but she just giggles. And doesn’t stop, at least not as quickly as I’d like. She brings me to the brink of orgasm again and again, only to let it go and laugh. Needless to say, I rarely get to cum during that. If I do, she spends another 10-15 minutes rubbing me in post-orgasmic hell. If it’s night-time, she typically leaves me tied for the night, and I wake up being tickled or teased. Or both.
Anyway, the chastity device has done wonders for us. It’s not perfect, but it’s enough that with a little self-control I can go over a month without playing with myself, and that’a miracle for someone who had 2-3 orgasms daily before marriage.
By the way, accidental orgasms bring punishment. Usually, I will wait for 5 weeks before the next orgasm, and have to endure a particularly merciless tickling session. Last time it was 30 minutes non-stop fingernail tickling on the soles of the feet. I was incoherent when that was over. Needless to say, I do everything I can to prevent mistakes.