Craigslist: Curious About Cuckolding?
I monitor Craigslist personals pretty frequently for well-written ads by couples or single men interested in this lifestyle. They’re few and far between, believe me. I’m all for getting to the point, but most of the ads out there are not only too short, they are just mindless and unappealing.
Every now and then, a thoughtful one worthy to share with the group comes through my feed reader. Here’s one from a single man in the Chicago suburbs. Men, take note: this is a great example of how to write an ad that will get noticed. Craigslist ads expire quickly, so here’s a reprint:
Are You A Couple Curious About Cuckolding? - m4mw (Western Surburbs)
Date: 2008-06-22, 7:27AM CDTCuckolding is not for everyone.
But for those couples lucky enough to have a strong marriage, a desire for white-hot sexual play, and a husband who has that special gene that turns him on when his loved one is taken by another, this can be the ultimate adventure.
I am seeking such a couple to develop a cuck relationship. This happens one excruciatingly erotic step at a time, as the powerful sexual energy of cuckolding draws on the well of the mind to explode into the physical play. What all this means to the cuckold is as powerful as what is actually done by his wife.
This would involve me dating the wife, who has her pleasure at her discretion, and controls how much she tells her husband, allows him to participate, and requires him to support her. Rules can be developed, usually ones that make the cuck very aroused, and the lovers smile.
I am not seeking an invitation just to have me come over and have sex with the wife in front of the husband (although this may indeed happen in cuckolding). Often this is arranged by the husband, who is in charge, lining up a lay for the wife. That’s just swinging, which is fun, but not what I’m seeking. Cuckolding is an intense relationship adjustment between husband and wife in which she is in control and she has her pleasure with another at her whim, while controlling the husband’s pleasure with her.
As the lover, I enjoy the wife in a special way, and enjoy participating to some degree. I’m very creative and enjoy helping the wife sexually torture her husband with our relationship … torture in the good sense, of course, that he is hard, hyperventilating and in agony waiting for the chance to have some relief with her.
Experience is not necessary. Sincerity and willingness to explore safely and sanely is. As always, this must be 100 percent discreet. I very much prefer couples who are emotionally mature and have a good relationship and good personalities.
It is a given that if the husband is not a cuck, he will not be convinced to do so and this will almost never happen. The wife can be convinced to participate in time, given a stepwise development. But a cuck is almost born, not made. There are many men who secretly are deeply aroused at the thought of their wives truly enjoying another man to the exclusion of the husband’s intimate needs. As with many forms of D/s and other sexual adventures, this becomes a paradox: The prime determinant of cuckolding is the cuck, who ultimately has the least power and sometimes the greatest erotic experience. However, this is also so hot that this notice should probably also be in the m4w section as well.
If this is interesting to you, drop me a line and we’ll chat. You don’t have to be married and you don’t have to live nearby. Because this involves a great deal of verbal / relational play as well as realtime dating, this could be done at some distance.
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Posted by David | Jun. 26, 2008 | Posted in Advice, Craigslist, Cuckolds, Personals | 3 Comments »
Hmm. I think that I should give this guy a call……. Sounds like he travels!!!!he he
Hmm maybe we should give him a call.
I don’t think that you are born a cuck but I think you might have a predisposition to being a cuckold. My first long term girl friend I cheated on a few times, we tried to explore swinging but were unable to find the right couple to play with. Toward the end of our relationship she cheated on me a few times and it hurt and it some ways it was hot. Our last time we had sex, days before I got married, we were at some hot tubs and it was very obvious that she was quite used to having sex in them and rather practiced at it. Didn’t think too much about it at the time but later found out from her that she was doing a lot of fucking with a lot of men!
When I got married over 29 years ago I wanted to try swinging. Didn’t talk the wife into it for a long while. Cheated on her a few times including a relationship with her best friend…don’t do that! We did a mfm as a step to swinging 21 years ago and enjoyed it. Tried swinging and enjoyed it. Enjoyed what is now called hotwife play too. About six years ago she did a few things that had some cuck elements to it (in hind sight) and it hurt but was hot. She enjoyed the power she felt. One element that did influence me was that I really enjoyed seeing my wife having sex and she didn’t enjoy seeing me having sex at the beginning. Now she would love to see me making love to another woman but she has conditioned me to not do that… Oh well!
My interest has grown and now she is getting interested in it as well, as she thinks back to the things she did a while back that she enjoyed, made her feel powerful and hot. So, all we need is the right lover for her to explore it. If we don’t find the right lover I doubt if we will struggle too long to make it happen. I think we will do some more hotwife play but not push the cuckold games unless we find the right lover. Be interesting to see if this guy does travel.