Q&A: Meeting a couple for the first time
Joe, a 22-year old stud, writes:
I’m wondering if you might give me some advice. I’m meeting a couple tonight for the first time. I’d like to make things go smoothly, but the husband is having some pangs of jealousy leading up to it. It’s their first time ever doing this, and even though we’re planning of more of a MFM threesome encounter, rather than cuckolding him in front of his hot wife. I’m worried about pissing him off. I just wanted to ask what you thought the best approach would be when I first meet them for drinks at a restaurant tonight. Do you think I should be somewhat aggressive and play with her under the table, or should I tone it down?
Well, hopefully you’ve already reviewed our advice for single men. In my opinion, you should always start off as nothing but respectful. Be your charming, non-threatening self, as if you were on a first date with a girl, with absolutely no expectations of sex. No doubt you can be a little flirty with them. However, ask for permission before getting too “hands on.” It never hurts to ask before your hands begin to wander, and a little politeness will go a long way. Odds are, they’re as nervous as you are.
But, remember this date is something they want as well. You’re their fantasy as much as they are yours. So, maybe you could try to find an ice breaker that will allow you to lead them into the kind of encounter that you both desire.
And for heaven’s sake, don’t forget to be complimentary of his wife, to both of them.
Readers, what other advice do you have for Joe on his date tonight? Post your thoughts in the comments.
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Posted by David | Nov. 16, 2007 | Posted in Advice, Cuckolds, Hot Wives, Threesomes | 11 Comments »
Just stay respectful and focus on her. That is pretty much all it is about.
I agree with all of the above. Don’t meet them with the expectation of sex. Enjoy thier company and be sensitive to what is going on between the three of you. Body language has been a key indicator in all of my swinging expereinces of how things were clicking.
You need to be especially sensitive to the husbands feelings. Get to know him. Find a comon ground with him as well (Not his wife). It sounds like there is some jealousy on his part. Make sure you don’t portray yourself as a threat to the relationship. It may seem funny to put as much focus on the husband as the wife, but trust me, the expereince will go much better if all three of you share the same level of comfort.
Whenever I am with a couple, I always go in with the mind set that the wife is not the only one who I am fucking. The husbands mind is being fucked right along with her as he watches. That’s what makes the expereince so enjoyable for him; otherwise he wouldn’t be there. Although you won’t be touching him, he is a part of the act of intercourse you and his wife are engagging in.
Allie and her husband are right on in saying that this couple wants something to happen as bad as you do. Nervousness is normal before any new sexual encounter. Relax. Everything is ok. Enjoy your dinner with them and see what transpires. Good Luck! (I hope you get to fuck her brains out!)
Wads
My husband and I are with Wads entirely on this one. He obviously speaks from vast experience entailing tried and true methodology. Wads… when can you join us for dinner?
June
Great response David! And I love your take on this Lance.
My Ally and I are just about ready to explore our play with a single friend, who first became with Ally. We and specifically I, missed his signals that he was interested, especially when paired with Ally’s lack of immediate sexual interest in him. He has met up with us at night, he has brought us both presents from his frequent travels, and he likes to spend time with us. He even visited us at our beach house late one day late this summer. He arrived very late after a long four hour drive and while we had fun, we didn’t have that kind of fun. But in hindsight, we really missed what was happening and that is a shame since we are built the way that we are.
A couple of weeks ago, after an afterwork engagement that I did not attend, Ally went over to our friend, Joey’s place and hung out for a bit. In her drunkeness she came onto him and they made out a little bit. He did put his hands in her pants and felt her pussy. She told me his cock get very hard and she could feel it rubbing in his pants against her leg. But then he stopped. Probably because she was drunk. She said he told him it was out of respect for me. She told him OK, but you will regret it. I have been told that he said he does regret it.
Anyway, this brings me to the point, which is being sincerely nice to both the Hotwife and Husband is absolutely neccessary.
What kind of food do you and your husband like June? Thanks for the kind words. Do you ever get to Arizona? It is really nice this time of year.
Wads
We’re in Sin City, Wads. We love Mexican Cuisine.
June
Mexican Cuisine is awsome! I love vegas. Ever make it to the big AVN show June?
Wads
January and AVN can’t cum soon enough, Wads. We’ll be there!
June
Great! I am planning on going this year too. I have a friend who works for Digital Playground. Stop by and say Hi. Perhaps we could hook up for some great Mexican Cuisine and maybe more “Wink Wink”
Wads
Perhaps… “Wink Wink”
Hey this is Joe, the 22-yr old stud who was asking for the advice.
I just wanted to say how much I appreciated all of the feedback, it really helped me out that night. I was sincerely nice to both the husband and the wife, and made sure to be especially slow, cautious, and gentle given that it was their first time. She had never been with anyone else but her husband, and so I worked hard to make it an unforgettable experience, and I never stopped complimenting her. Honestly, I can’t underestimate how beautiful she was, truly gorgeous and sexy. Her tits were stunning and she had legs like a goddess. She sucked cock sooo good, and her pussy was amazingly tight. I’m still reeling from the experience.
We’re planning on an even more intense MFM second experience, I’ll let David know how that one goes when it happens.
Again thanks for the advice, and I never stopped being honest with them, and always told her how sexy she was.