An open letter to younger men interested in hotwife and cuckold lifestyles
In just the past few days, we’ve received a few emails from prospective “dates” asking us if we would be interested in meeting younger men. The short answer is of course. We don’t mind meeting you, so long as you’re of legal age.
That said, it’s rare that we meet men under the age of thirty. And it’s not because of the age difference. It’s usually because your level of maturity just isn’t there. It’s important that you be able to handle this situation properly. That includes being private and discreet about it. It means not sending us endless emails asking to “hook up” again. It means not calling at all hours. It means you have to be respectful and polite, particularly when we first meet.
Plus, we have so little in common now with you guys in your early twenties. We’d like to at least be able to have a conversation with you, before and after you jump in the sack with my wife. But if we don’t share a lot of the same kinds of life experiences, then you’re really going to have to prove it in the bedroom so to speak.
And speaking of the bedroom, a lot of younger men just haven’t had the kind of sexual experience and background that we’re looking for. A lot of you are still learning, and while you might have the stamina to please a woman–you don’t quite have a grasp yet of all the psychological nuance necessary for these kinds of encounters to work. Or…you just might not know what you’re doing at all yet. And that’s fine–but we’re not always in a position where we can help you learn that stuff. Most of the time, we’re looking for someone who can come in and know how to please her, while knowing how to get inside my head at the same time. Plus, we’d like to get comfortable enough with you so that I don’t always have to be in the room…and I know Allie would like that too.
So, younger men, all is not lost. We do like hearing from you, and we’d love to meet you. Here are a few tips (and you might take a few cues from this posting also):
- Keep your emails bright, polite and intelligent. We get lots of mail from mature guys. Find a way to distinguish yourself–without coming across as arrogant or idiotic. A little proper punctuation goes a long way.
- Send a photo you would send to your mom. Not of your cock. Period. Cock shots, with no face pics, go right to the trash without looking twice. A good rule of thumb ratio is 3 clothed, unblurred pics to each nude photo (if any).
- Email once, and leave it alone. If we want to meet you, we will write back. We will contact you to let you know either way. I know there are a lot of couples out there that don’t write back, and you feel like you have to send and resend your email. That just hurts. It never helps. That’s why it’s so important to put your best face forward on the very first email.
- Be a gentleman. To a fault. I know you’ve got an urge to get all dominant, turn on your “bull routine” and try to “put me in my place,” yadda, yadda, yadda. Save it for when my wife’s feet are in the air, and believe me, I’ll be well on my way into submissive cuckold space. Until then, mind your manners.
- Remember to send a thank you email the next day. Compliment her and thank me. We’ll notice. You won’t get invited back otherwise.
- Dress to impress.
- Do your homework. Try to learn as much as you can about what we’re looking for. Ask smart questions.
- Remember that this is our fantasy too. This isn’t all about you. This is a 3-way street: you, her and I. This will all go a lot smoother if you keep this in mind.
That’s it. Sounds like job interviewing tips, doesn’t it? Well, that’s a pretty good metaphor. We all want this encounter to be fun, sexy and positive. Plus, we might be interested in a long-term arrangement. I think if you keep these points in mind, you’ll have success. If not with us, then with another couple.
Good luck!
–David
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Posted by David | May. 09, 2007 | Posted in Advice, Cuckolds, Hot Wives | 3 Comments »
A very interesting and informative post. I always fantasize about much younger men (I am 36) but I have to say any contact I’ve had with them (mainly email) has backed up what you said, they try and sell themselves and go on and on about how good they are in bed when it is clear they are clueless. There is a naive charm about them though, but like you say, no one has the time to teach them all the moves. I think fantasizing about them is better than the reality for me but I’d be interested to read about your and Allie’s encounters with some of the best specimens!
I have to say, that was a very well written post. You articulated thoughts and concerns that my wife and I have had since the very beginning. If you don’t mind, I will have to appropriate some of those thoughts for myself, your wording is excellent, honest and upfront without a hint of being offensive. Thank you for dragging the thoughts out of my head and making them come to life (even if it was all your doing and my thoughts played no part LOL).
“a lot of younger men just haven’t had the kind of sexual experience and background that we’re looking for”
A lot of younger women don’t have the kind of experience and background we’re looking for, which is one more reason Allie is so damn compelling.
I think guys at the mall suspect I’m leering at their daughter when, in fact, I’m leering at their wife! Too bad it isn’t easier to tell who loves their wife enough to let them have everything they want!
Good luck if you find young studs that treat you right. It could be lots of nights of fun, if everyone follows your advice!