Comments on: Cuckold jealousy http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/ The sexual adventures of a very special Hot Wife and the blog musings of her loving cuckold husband. Wed, 07 Jan 2009 17:30:05 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=abc hourly 1 By: Michael http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-51329 Michael Tue, 11 Mar 2008 18:06:24 +0000 http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/#comment-51329 Thanks for your perspective. It helps me remember my place. We are an older couple, 50s. We have been involved off and on since 2000. Wife has recently had a young man late 20s. She obtained an apartment and more or less moved in with him as I'm not home often. I was made to pay for the apartment, utilities and food. She was totally smitten with him but as time went by she discovered things about him she couldn't deal with. So, that's over as of last week. She also has a boyfriend 40s. She's with him as often as she can. He called her on a Saturday I was home and she made a date with him for that night. I have never met this guy so I had some concern but she reasuured me everything would be okay. Very bold move by her, to leave me alone all night to be with her lover, especially when I'm home so seldom. 9:00 PM she called me after they had dinner and were ready to start their romance for the night. 2:30 AM I couldn't stand it anymore and called her cell. She answered and told me she was fine, resting with him and would start home around 7:00 AM, she also said he was so horny, he did her five times. Jealousy and envy for him. When she finally arrived home she told me to clean her with my tounge before she would let me fuck her. Of course I was so excited I came quickly. She said it's okay she was tired from screwing David all night and needed to rest. I was allowed to watch them last December. He has a very thick cock. Thanks for your perspective. It helps me remember my place.
We are an older couple, 50s. We have been involved off and on since 2000.
Wife has recently had a young man late 20s. She obtained an apartment and more or less moved in with him as I’m not home often. I was made to pay for the apartment, utilities and food. She was totally smitten with him but as time went by she discovered things about him she couldn’t deal with. So, that’s over as of last week.
She also has a boyfriend 40s. She’s with him as often as she can. He called her on a Saturday I was home and she made a date with him for that night. I have never met this guy so I had some concern but she reasuured me everything would be okay. Very bold move by her, to leave me alone all night to be with her lover, especially when I’m home so seldom. 9:00 PM she called me after they had dinner and were ready to start their romance for the night. 2:30 AM I couldn’t stand it anymore and called her cell. She answered and told me she was fine, resting with him and would start home around 7:00 AM, she also said he was so horny, he did her five times. Jealousy and envy for him. When she finally arrived home she told me to clean her with my tounge before she would let me fuck her. Of course I was so excited I came quickly. She said it’s okay she was tired from screwing David all night and needed to rest. I was allowed to watch them last December. He has a very thick cock.

]]> By: tuppinsinmo http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-5574 tuppinsinmo Tue, 29 May 2007 23:06:20 +0000 http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/#comment-5574 I agree with all the points made and wish to add only this. A wife can help play a huge role in keeping jealousy to a minim. 1. She should always consider and be considerate of her husbands wish’s, desires, needs and wants. 2. She should always reinforce that though a lover might be a wonderful fuck, he is not the king bee when it comes to making love to her, for only her husband gets to do that. 3. She should always reinforce that no mans cock is better then her mans even if she has to lie to do it. 4. She should never hide details, make phone calls with out letting the husband listen if he chooses too, she must do nothing that causes the husband to doubt her trust or infringe on his. 5. She should do the little things that say I love you over and over, just as the husband needs to do for her. It can be as simple as a favorite candy bar when buying gas. 6. She should hold some things that are shared only between her and her man. Maybe it’s anal sex, maybe its oral sex, maybe it’s the way of foreplay, etc. 7. Her and her husband need to have clearly set up rules to play by that they both agree on 100% 8. She should always allow the husband the right to say NO, not that guy, and she should honor that request. 9. Trust will continue and love and trust will grow with each experience shared if the experiences do not become one sided. Therefore sharing details, pictures, and always ending by making love with the husband. If those small things are done, there will be far less if any jealousy. Men must be as willing to live by the rules, forgive when one is broken, be understanding and most of all show your love and desire for you wife not just her experience. If you make the experience the important thing, instead of her, then you lower her to the worth of a good prono movie and you will have problems. I agree with all the points made and wish to add only this. A wife can help play a huge role in keeping jealousy to a minim.
1. She should always consider and be considerate of her husbands wish’s, desires, needs and wants.
2. She should always reinforce that though a lover might be a wonderful fuck, he is not the king bee when it comes to making love to her, for only her husband gets to do that.
3. She should always reinforce that no mans cock is better then her mans even if she has to lie to do it.
4. She should never hide details, make phone calls with out letting the husband listen if he chooses too, she must do nothing that causes the husband to doubt her trust or infringe on his.
5. She should do the little things that say I love you over and over, just as the husband needs to do for her. It can be as simple as a favorite candy bar when buying gas.
6. She should hold some things that are shared only between her and her man. Maybe it’s anal sex, maybe its oral sex, maybe it’s the way of foreplay, etc.
7. Her and her husband need to have clearly set up rules to play by that they both agree on 100%
8. She should always allow the husband the right to say NO, not that guy, and she should honor that request.
9. Trust will continue and love and trust will grow with each experience shared if the experiences do not become one sided. Therefore sharing details, pictures, and always ending by making love with the husband.
If those small things are done, there will be far less if any jealousy. Men must be as willing to live by the rules, forgive when one is broken, be understanding and most of all show your love and desire for you wife not just her experience. If you make the experience the important thing, instead of her, then you lower her to the worth of a good prono movie and you will have problems.

]]> By: JS http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-2221 JS Thu, 19 Apr 2007 01:39:15 +0000 http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/#comment-2221 Those are very helpful explanations that were learned first hand on how to deal with what must be hard for a cuckold to come to terms with. The comments following are enlightening and what must be how relationships like yours thrive. .... this is just the way it is. This is what I wanted.” I accept that I love my wife and she loves me, but this is what is best for her and her lover. It’s best for her to be pleased by capable men. And it’s best for me to just watch and help out as needed (or not).... I would say that the majority of men would rather be sexually physical with a lady,especially their wife, than sit back and watch. This is how you want things and thoroughly enjoy it and happen to be satisfied sexually through the enjoyment of your wife,even though from what i read,some of your reasonings are forced, so to relate to many of your readers. ....That’s right. It’s what I want. It’s what she wants. And it’s certainly what he wants.... I can't blame the lovers for wanting Allie.I'm sure she gets lost in her lovemaking to her b/fs and f/bs and its beautiful. It appears she has some independence from you while you are dependent on her and don't have your own identity and that may be by design. I realize in a blog,the true intent and feelings aren't construed to the readers,nor could they be, since everything can't be revealed. ..... I love her more giving her the confidence to, and she loves me for following her wishes.... It takes someone really confident in his relationship to be totally submissive to their partner,even though some eat creampies or fluff a lover and that is something repulsive to most straight men. I guess thats why many cuckold couples keep that personal. There's no way in hell i would do that,even if it was my woman's fantasy. I'm not submissive in that way either. Since she originally submitted to you,i guess it works both ways lol. .... I don’t expect people not in this lifestyle to accept or even understand this concept.... You're right. I think its great since it works for you two and you are happy but to understand it,no way lol. To defer to other men doesn't sound fun,especially when they take away alone time with her. I don't know. I'm sure you are good at balancing it all. There's more to a marriage than sex,albeit all types,although thats a part of it. You prefer to watch Allie with other men while many of us horndogs find it more sexually fulfilling enjoying multiple women. Very different wants and needs.There's room for it all. Those are very helpful explanations that were learned first hand on how to deal with what must be hard for a cuckold to come to terms with.
The comments following are enlightening and what must be how relationships like yours thrive.

…. this is just the way it is. This is what I wanted.” I accept that I love my wife and she loves me, but this is what is best for her and her lover. It’s best for her to be pleased by capable men. And it’s best for me to just watch and help out as needed (or not)….

I would say that the majority of men would rather be sexually physical with a lady,especially their wife, than sit back and watch. This is how you want things and thoroughly enjoy it and happen to be satisfied sexually through the enjoyment of your wife,even though from what i read,some of your reasonings are forced, so to relate to many of your readers.

….That’s right. It’s what I want. It’s what she wants. And it’s certainly what he wants….

I can’t blame the lovers for wanting Allie.I’m sure she gets lost in her lovemaking to her b/fs and f/bs and its beautiful. It appears she has some independence from you while you are dependent on her and don’t have your own identity and that may be by design. I realize in a blog,the true intent and feelings aren’t construed to the readers,nor could they be, since everything can’t be revealed.

….. I love her more giving her the confidence to, and she loves me for following her wishes….

It takes someone really confident in his relationship to be totally submissive to their partner,even though some eat creampies or fluff a lover and that is something repulsive to most straight men. I guess thats why many cuckold couples keep that personal. There’s no way in hell i would do that,even if it was my woman’s fantasy. I’m not submissive in that way either. Since she originally submitted to you,i guess it works both ways lol.

…. I don’t expect people not in this lifestyle to accept or even understand this concept….

You’re right. I think its great since it works for you two and you are happy but to understand it,no way lol. To defer to other men doesn’t sound fun,especially when they take away alone time with her. I don’t know. I’m sure you are good at balancing it all. There’s more to a marriage than sex,albeit all types,although thats a part of it. You prefer to watch Allie with other men while many of us horndogs find it more sexually fulfilling enjoying multiple women. Very different wants and needs.There’s room for it all.

]]> By: helpmate hubby http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-2213 helpmate hubby Wed, 18 Apr 2007 03:35:56 +0000 http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/#comment-2213 I wanted to say that I thought your advice was very beneficial and i look forward to applying it to my own situation. In my own blog i have chronicalled how i believe my marriage is evolving into a cuckold based one and i hope that by following your advice it will help me successfully adjust to my new role. I wanted to say that I thought your advice was very beneficial and i look forward to applying it to my own situation. In my own blog i have chronicalled how i believe my marriage is evolving into a cuckold based one and i hope that by following your advice it will help me successfully adjust to my new role.

]]> By: Joe http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-2197 Joe Tue, 17 Apr 2007 14:07:46 +0000 http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/#comment-2197 Hey David, Thts awesome golden advice i rather say for future hotwife hubbies like me.numereous times this has arised in me "will i can handle it" but so far i never met with any solutions or explanation untill i saw ur post here. thks david Hey David,

Thts awesome golden advice i rather say for future hotwife hubbies like me.numereous times this has arised in me “will i can handle it” but so far i never met with any solutions or explanation untill i saw ur post here.

thks david

]]> By: Andrew http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/comment-page-1/#comment-2195 Andrew Tue, 17 Apr 2007 13:54:42 +0000 http://www.hotwivesonline.com/2007/04/16/cuckold-jealousy/#comment-2195 This is really helpful advice, my wife and I are cuckolding again after sometime difficulty with jealousy. We are both excited and I plan to use your techniques when her lover visits this week. This is really helpful advice, my wife and I are cuckolding again after sometime difficulty with jealousy. We are both excited and I plan to use your techniques when her lover visits this week.

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