Hot Wife Allie

I admit it…I troll the Craigslist classifieds. About once a week, you can find me there looking for posts by single men that seem interesting, in the hopes that they might just be nearby enough for Allie and I to meet (they rarely are). And over the past ear or so, I’ve noticed a huge increase in men seeking cuckold or related fetish encounters.  When someone crafts a particularly thoughtful, well-spoken or just plain hot ad, I think it deserves a mention. Here’s one I found today in Craigslist SF Bay:

You want to watch your wife squirm in ecstacy - m4mw
You’ve wanted to see your wife squirm in ecstasy, impaled on a hard cock that plunges so deeply into her that she’s breathless. And you’d like to see her submissively being used for another man’s pleasure.

Problem is, she either isn’t ready for that type of experience or she’s afraid it won’t go well and will leave her feeling embarrassed. I thrive on both situations because I love the challenge of getting into the woman’s mind and finding ways to get her to do as I like, even if it means doing things she wouldn’t normally dream of. Better (but not required), you’re looking to experience all the things a cuckold goes through in the way of jealousy and humiliation. If that’s your pleasure then as the relationship evolves you may well end up being asked to participate in ways that make you uncomfortable but extremely aroused: preparing her for me, presenting her to me, even guiding my cock up between her parted legs and being told to go play with yourself as you listen to her gasps of pleasure. And afterwards, long afterwards, look to clean us up as she lies in my arms and looks you in the eyes. Count on watching your wife’s defenses melt away as I make her feel mentally and physically beautiful and sexier than ever before.

Here’s the deal. You tell me about your wife’s likes, dislikes, interests, opinions, objections, desires, and current (but soon to be expanded) limits. I’ll know her like an open book by the time we meet. We’ll also work out how best for that meeting to take place; chance encounter or pre-arranged get-together, alone or with you there. I’ll be using all you told me about her to say every right thing she wants to hear. The scene that unfolds will depend on how contact is made and where instinct takes us. If you’re there, you’ll watch her allow me to flirtingly touch her in ways she wouldn’t normally allow but will with someone so in tune with all her thoughts. Pretty soon I’ll be seated next to her, my hands going from her knee to up along her inner thigh, and into the silky material of her panties. From there, resistance is futile. She’s mine for as long as we feel inclined to go with it.

I’m athletic with a touch of grey, well-endowed, creative, financially comfortable, broadly educated, open-minded, confident, and very very seductive. I love married women and girlfriends in LTR’s, even more than unattached single ones. All women appreciate attention but these women particularly crave it, even when they start out saying it’s not for them. And the added theater of a cuckold husband in the background is extremely erotic to me.

The next step is yours. Even if you’re at the fantasy stage with this and want to explore your thoughts and you think I might be the type of guy who can turn your woman into a complete whore then send me a photo of her along with a description of her personality and the outcome you’d like to see evolve.

David :: Apr.28.2007 :: Craigslist, Cuckolds, Personals :: 1 Comment »

In the most recent issue of New York Magazine, sex advice columnists Em & Lo take on the phenomenon of the MILF (or Mom-I’d-Love-to-Fuck). It’s a great analysis, and as the happily-married husband of a certified MILF, I applaud it.  Here’s a taste of the column (via New York Magazine, via Fleshbot):

But why the hot mom, and why now? Maybe it has to do with women’s procreating later, and being more hesitant to surrender a sexuality they’ve spent decades building. Maybe it’s a looks thing, given that women can—with the aid of Pilates and a discreet tuck—turn back time to a sometimes disturbing degree. Perhaps it’s a side effect of the rise of the hipster parenting generation. (What’s less hip than having zero sex appeal?) And we can also thank Demi and Madonna for glamorizing May-December relationships.

Then there’s the Viagra factor. “There are all these halftime commercials for Viagra shouting at men to take the lead sexually and make love like porn stars,” says Ian Kerner, Ph.D., therapist-author of He Comes Next. “There’s a lot of performance pressure on guys, so I think the idea of submitting to an older woman who can take charge is incredibly alluring.”

But perhaps the weirdest aspect of the MILF phenomenon is how many moms themselves have embraced the term. By donning MILF T-shirts, they’ve made the I obsolete, declawing the dirty little joke on the playground. (Across the pond, Brits accomplished the same via the more polite term “yummy mummy.”)

I’m curious what folks in our community think of the rise of the MILF.  Plus who are some of your favorite MILF-y celebrities?  Post your thoughts in the comments!

David :: Apr.27.2007 :: MILF, Strange but true :: No Comments »

To compliment last weeks photos of Allie in the shower, I thought I’d post a short video clip that I took at the same time. Have a look!

David :: Apr.27.2007 :: Allie, Video :: No Comments »

Here are a few post-pregnancy photos of Allie that I took this morning in the shower.  Do you love her soapy boobies as much as I do?  Yummy!

David :: Apr.21.2007 :: Allie, Photos :: 2 Comments »

I came across this tiny creampie video clip from a couple of years ago and I thought I’d share it with the group.  I thought I’d put it on the site before–but I can’t find it.  Anyway, here’s a few seconds of one of Allie’s particularly juicy creampies.  Enjoy!

David :: Apr.17.2007 :: Allie, Creampies, Video :: 3 Comments »

“So, do I suck the cock on the left and jerk the one on the right? Or suck the one on the right and jerk the one on the left. Wait…which is hubby’s? Oh, yeah. The one on the right.”

David :: Apr.16.2007 :: Allie, Cartoons, Cuckolds, Pinups :: No Comments »

I received a question via email today about jealousy and how it’s handled when it comes up in cuckold situations. I think there’s no doubt when a couple decides to engage in a hotwife / cuckold lifestyle at any level, they’ll definitely encounter jealousy issues on the part of the husband. Smart couples will address and work through those issues quickly and monitor them often.

Watching your wife with another man is very exciting and thrilling, but the powerful emotion of jealousy and envy can erupt without warning. You, as her loving, yet cuckolded, husband need to be prepared to address it and handle it.

I’d like to propose three steps that men can work through their cuckold jealousy, and keep his evolving relationship with his hotwife positive, and her encounters with her lovers fun and exciting. I’m not a psychologist or anything like that. These are just things I do to address my occasional jealousy issues, and turn those negative feelings into thoughts that drive my lust for my hotwife even greater.

Step One: Acknowledgment

When the pangs of jealous envy begin to rear their ugly head, the first thing I do is acknowledge that is what I’m feeling. I take a few minutes, take some deep breaths, and identify and label those thoughts as jealous ones. I think this is very important. After a few times, this step will help you prepare for future bouts of envy and you’ll begin to identify those feelings faster. It’ll also help you begin to see a pattern of why or when those feelings of cuckold jealousy happen for you. For me, I get the jealousy pangs when one of three things happen: 1) When Allie sees a lover’s cock for the first time, and its bigger than mine; 2) When Allie cums with a lover quickly when he’s fucking her; and 3) When Allie fucks one of her lovers for an hour or more without him cumming.

Do you see a pattern there? For me, my pattern of cuckold jealousy revolves all around my feelings of sexual inadequacy. I’m sure the same pattern exists for other jealous cuckolds out there, yet I’m sure there are others. I found that by acknowledging my jealousy and identifying those feelings as such, helped me to enjoy those encounters more. Until you acknowledge them, you can’t do the next step.

Step Two: Transference

After I found my pattern of cuckold jealousy, I learned that transferring those negative feelings into something positive helped me a great deal. The very first time I saw Allie having sex with another man, I almost couldn’t handle it. I had a big problem with it, even though I wanted to see and experience it. I was wracked with jealousy, and even had to leave the room for a little while, while he plowed away into her. Needless to say, I didn’t handle the early encounters very well.

Later, I determined that the reason why I felt so jealous was because I loved by wife so much, and that I felt threatened by men that were able to please her with more ability and ease than I had. I transferred my thoughts of jealousy, into thoughts of admiration and love. Admiration of men that were obviously more capable than me, and love for my wife that was getting the kind of pleasure she deserved. After I started transferring my jealous feelings, I was ready for the last step.

Step Three: Acceptance

The last step I use to conquer the jealousy in my head is to accept the situation. I just think, “this is just the way it is. This is what I wanted.” I accept that I love my wife and she loves me, but this is what is best for her and her lover. It’s best for her to be pleased by capable men. And it’s best for me to just watch and help out as needed (or not).

So, when I see my hot wife Allie on her hands and knees, with her lover behind her, fucking her pregnant ass, I accept it. That’s right. It’s what I want. It’s what she wants. And it’s certainly what he wants.

And after a lover unloads his cum on Allie’s tits, and she tells me to put my head down and lick it off her, I accept it. I love her more giving her the confidence to, and she loves me for following her wishes. I might be jealous that he got to cum, and I didn’t, but that’s okay. I’m doing it because I love her and respect his role in the encounter.

I don’t expect people not in this lifestyle to accept or even understand this concept. It’s a leap that couples have to make if they’re going to be successful in this kind of play. And if they take it a step further, and make it a full lifestyle choice, they’ll find out quickly that issues with cuckold jealousy have to be addressed early and often. There’s no more powerful phenomenon in the hotwife / cuckold dynamic, but I really think with some time and patience, husbands can make it work for them.

David :: Apr.16.2007 :: Advice, Cuckolds :: 6 Comments »

Okay guys…this question has evolved from a thread I saw on a message board recently. I’d like to know what celebrities out there you’d love to be cuckolded by or with. Guys, what five celeb women would you love to make you watch them? Ladies, what five celeb guys would you love to fuck in front of your husband or boyfriend? Share with the group by posting your list in the comments.

Here’s my list:

1. Tina Fey
2. Alessandra Ambrosio
3. Keira Knightley
4. Liz Hurley
5. Jenny McCarthy

Guys, I guess you could list what men you’d like your wife to sleep with too. I’ll post my list after someone posts their’s first. LOL

David :: Apr.12.2007 :: Cuckolds, Lists :: 12 Comments »

Happy Easter, everyone!

David :: Apr.08.2007 :: Allie, Cartoons, Holidays, Pinups :: 2 Comments »

Here’s the first of a series of pinups of a more dominant Allie than usual.  I can’t wait to see what direction this set of pinups goes!  Here’s the full Hotwife Allie pinup archive, if you haven’t seen them before.  I also threw in a link there to the older pinups from last year.  I think the newer ones are much better.

David :: Apr.06.2007 :: Allie, Cartoons, Dominance and Submission, Pinups :: 1 Comment »