Creampies and the Blues
What is it about creampies that makes us hubbies of hotwives so excited? Is it the thought that another man is “marking his territory” inside your wife? Is it that only a husband should have the privilege of cumming inside his wife, that to let another man do it is so over-the-top taboo? And of course, let’s not forget the truly cuckolded, submissive men out there that are humiliated by seeing a dominant alpha male ejaculate inside his mate.
Of course the only way most of us are going to witness a creampie inside our wife is to generate it ourselves. Forget about the pregnancy risk. In this STD fearful day and age, we have to be careful and aware of the risks of strange men cumming anywhere near us, not to mention inside the holiest of holies. So, the only way to safely encounter a creampie is to make it yourself, by cumming inside your hotwife.
But in the vast (99.9%) of men, an orgasm is immediately followed by, for lack of a better term, the “Post-Orgasm Blues,” or POB. POB is a very legitimate feeling–you know, it’s the feeling you get after orgasm that just makes you want to curl up in a ball and go to sleep, turn the game back on, or do anything except think about sex.
We’ve all been there, guys. You cum and immediately you lose interest in sex for a little while. There’s no escaping it–POB is physiological, caused by cascading hormones in your brain that you have little to no control over.
Think about it? Things that seem like a good idea before orgasm, in this case eating a fresh creampie created by you and your cum, never seem like that great an idea after orgasm. In fact, you might be mildly repulsed by the idea–or completely turned off. That’s POB in action.
So, in the heat of passion you might think you want to clean out your wife’s pussy–and roleplay the hot fantasy that it’s another guy’s cum–but it’s easier said than done because POB can be pretty powerful. Biology trumps desire almost every time.
And let’s forget about the homophobic angle here while we’re on the subject of creampies, shall we? Since when is eating pussy a homosexual activity (well, unless you’re a lesbian–but that’s another post). I’m not saying that creampies aren’t out there on the fringe–but there’s certainly nothing homosexual about them–so drop that idea here and now. Eating a creampie might make you submissive, or even a little humiliated–but it doesn’t make you gay. Got it?
So…is it possible to train yourself to defeat POB and eat a creampie? That’s a good question. I’m not sure. I’m still warming up to the creampie idea to begin with, so I’m not even sure it’s for me. I do think they look hot–and I’m always looking for photos of them online (I’ve amassed quite the creampie photo collection). Eating them though? I’m not sure. It sounds hot–but the blues!
Here are a few ideas for beating the Post-Orgasm Blues that I found in this exceptionally hot discussion group. These might be helpful if you find yourself battling POB and want to add enjoying creampies to you and your hotwife’s sexual repertoire.
- Just do it. This sounds simple, but caving in to POB really is largely mental. If someone rang a fire alarm right after you came, you could muster the energy to get out alive and maybe even spare some energy to put on clothes. You are not in a coma, so snap out of it and please your woman.
- Consider creampie eating part of lovemaking, the middle part. Part of the problem is that an orgasm is a nice stopping place, like a period to a sentence. If you considered it a comma, you would just go on. So, tell yourself that your orgasm is just the middle of sex, not the end. When you cum, slide down as if you are ready for the next phase in a continuous lovemaking medley, and you are not done yet. With this attitude, you can keep going all night.
- Change times of day. If you always make love late at night, you will already be tired before you begin. The POB just adds to your exhaustion and you drop happily into sleep. Why not try a nooner or a wake-me-up? Your energy level will still be high and you will have a better chance of defeating the dreaded POB.
- Why not take a rest? Who says that ten seconds after your last squirt you need to be heading south? Spend a minute, two minutes, ten, or fifteen — whatever it takes! — then slide down. OK, so she will have drained a little, but the remaining cum will still be delicious. If you think you are reluctant because of latent homophobia, this is also a good strategy because the creampie will taste so strongly of her.
- Enlist her help. Talk it over with her, and let her know your feelings and your problem. That alone can resolve emotional issues that masquerade as POB and your next time could be successful. She can also give you encouragement, which can be helpful. If still not successful, ask her to force you to follow through: ask her to sit on your face afterward. Make sure she knows you won’t think her a bitch; she is being a loving partner who is helping you achieve a long-held desire.
- Give it a practice run. Fuck her a little, then eat her a little. Fuck some more, eat some more. Keep it up, and after you cum, it is just another part of the cycle.
- Get snowballed. As training, snowballing is a big help. Basically, your lover gets you off orally, capturing your cum in her mouth. Then, she moves up and kisses you, forcing you to eat your own cum. There are several benefits. First, you learn to eat your own cum. Second, you learn that sex is not over until she says it is over. And third, at least you have gotten a nice blowjob.
- Enlist a third or join a couple. This is simple to explain: if you have trouble keeping your interest after you orgasm, let another man orgasm for you! Let him fill the pussy and then you can eat it.
So, do you have much experience with beating the blues and creampies? Please share your experiences, ideas and additions to this list in the comments. We’d love to learn from you guys (and girls!).
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Posted by David | Sep. 14, 2005 | Posted in Advice, Creampies, Cumshots & Facials, Double Penetration | 12 Comments »
I’ve got to say that I’m in the ‘exact’ same boat you are…
* massive collection
* not really sure about some stranger coming in my girl
* and a great desire to eat her out which promptly disappears.
I’ve overcome it though by using the “get over yourself” method, only once so far but me thinks it’s just the start.
God, I want to lick her pussy after cumming all over it. She’s a shy girl, but as I recall she once asked if I would do it, but at the time….I’ll have to make a point of finishing the job!
I found what helped to get me over the hump was to play with my wife’s creampie. Not only was a big turn on for her, but making her come again turned me on. A few weeks of that, I just got so turned on that I finally shocked both of us by leaning in and cleaned up my own mess.
what you need to do is learn to cum a little at a time mini orgasms when you do this your still horny and will eat her do it several times learn to slowly fuck and just as your gonna cum pull out let a little drip on her pussy then eat it practice by jacking off and eating it the same way
Great article. I’ve tried most of these suggestions at one time or another. The “just do it” approach can work. The only time we’ve involved another male gave me quite a delay (about 12 hours!) but the taste was still strong. So it’s mostly about the sheer determination to try it. Good luck to all!
Thanks for the link to my discussion group. The link with my /.sig below is to my story page.
Self-advertising completed, here are my comments. It seems there are two kinds of problems: you can’t do it -or- you think your lover will reject your advance. Rarely, men also have wives who actually do reject their advances, but that percentage is nowhere near the size of those with issues of timidity.
First problem first, you can do it. POB is a real physiological problem, but so is getting winded after running 50 yards. At first I did have problems getting past “wooziness”, but not now. I blink twice, see the grin on my hotgirl’s face, and spring into action. She deserves to feel the satisfaction of my munching her/our creampie. You can choose to get over the POB. Be a man! (BTW, I also had a problem sprinting. Two years later I am a soccer referee who runs upwards of six hours a day. You can do whatever you’ve a mind to. Isn’t “she” worth it?!)
Now, the problem of supposed rejection. Simply, stop thinking like a man! Women are entirely different creatures. If they love us, they will accept us and our kinks (especially since it means more pleasure for them–duh!). If they are mere lovers, they will go for the pleasure even while wondering what sort of dude you are; who cares what you are, because to them you are a toy. But basically, you have to understand fundamentally that women are wholly different than men. It is your own fears you have to overcome, not their rejection!
I invite everyone to stop by my group and to read the message archive. Search for “blues” and you will find that it is an incredibly frequently asked question. You are not alone in your desire to eat creampies. Far from it.
I love the advice about the POB…
I am not there with the creampie eating. But you have given me some food for thought… thought that is.
I was in the same boat, too….until I found a way around that. I was married for about 10 years and the now, ex-wife was not too receptive to any of this. My most recent girfriend, once she heard about my interest in having a 3some (mainly so I could get a taste of creampie without dealing with the blues) was very receptive to the idea. We started looking at the swinger sites and even met with a few couples but made no matches. So, I came up with this workable solution.
I decided that I would start jacking off and saving the cum in a square of plastic cling wrap, draw up the corners, with the load in the center of the square, and twist the plastic together, just above the load, sealing it away from air. Then, I immediately put it in the freezer. When you want to use it, just heat up a coffee cup of water, in the microwave. Not too hot, just the same as normal body temp. Then, you can use a small syringe or medicine dropper and carefully stick the medicine dropper down into it, letting go of the bulb at the top and sucking the cum into the dropper. Then, have your woman lying on her back with legs pulled back or in the doggie style position and insert the dropper into her hot wet pussy. The deeper you can put the end of the dropper, the better, then squeeze it all into her.
Next, I usually enter her and feel the warm and now VERY wet pussy. Take a couple of strokes noticing the feeling and simulation of actually dropping your load inside. The first time I tried this, the load I had saved was pretty thick and the conistancy remained close to the original, after freezing. I slid down and looked at her beautiful pussy, opening the lips just a little bit and could see a cum drop which had partially ran out. I put my mouth close and closed my eyes and with nervous anticipation, tasted my very first creampie! I had to just taste a little bit to get used to it and it was ok. Then I tasted it again. Again, it was ok. Then, I stuck my tongue inside her hole as far as I could get it and could feel a very nice drop on my tongue. Then, I was ok with it and it was REALLY turning me on and I had her get into a 69, with her on top, of course. Then, I used my two hands to open her up and pulled her ass down, so that I could plaster my mouth over her whole pussy and stuck my tongue inside of her and felt the first good string of cum that was very thick. Then, I could not get enough. I’d put both index fingers inside and open her up, trying to scoop any cum still inside, out. It was such an enjoyable experience. I’m glad I shared my fantasy with her and she wanted to help me out. We both enjoyed it very much.
Here’s a slight twist on the creampie discussion.
There is a married couple that I play with quite often who love for me to cum inside the wife. They both love the idea of a man, not the husband, cumming inside the wife.
The husband does not eat his wife’s pussy after I’ve came in her, but he loves to fuck her right after I’ve came in her and add his own seed to her. The wife had her tubes tied after her last child, so no threat of pregnancy and we have become pretty good friends and trust each other.
We both play with other people, but only do this bareback, internal cum shot with each other.
there is NOTHING hotter than a nice cream pie!! I love enjoying those once in awhile myself!! :)
My wife has been a hotwife for about eighteen years. Not all that long after we started playing I had my first cream pie. It was a bit funny feeling but I enjoyed it. Her lover had come in her and I nibbled a bit around the top, her clit until she had another orgasm and was ready for more. It wasn’t too long after that that I really started to enjoy getting deep into her wet and used pussy. Some of her lovers taste okay, when mixed with her own liberal juices and others don’t. It does turn her on and that is a big part of the turn on for me. I also enjoy the seconds feelings.
But like you said, a cream pie or sloppy seconds is proof of another man enjoying your wife! Hot for that reason. Funny, I still do not like eating my own come from my wife. I have of course done it when we are having a threesome but that is about it! She also tried to stop me the first time that I started down that way after her lover had come. Now she loves me doing it and has come back from dates, showed me her wet pussy and said, “Look Honey, Sid left you a little treat!”
Most of the time she just leans back and spreads her legs open, once in a while, when she is feeling a bit naughty she will straddle my face and rub her wet pussy over me, making a mess as she tells me about her date.
Brandi is selective since she does tend to take her lovers bare-back. Her enjoying her lover’s bare-back is hot, sexy and important to us.
i have found i can cum a little eat a lot cum sum more eat sum more i love it and my wife gets off on it. i have yet to try another mans cum but may get the chance real soon looking forwad to it