Hotwife rules to live by
There’s a great post over at the Our Hotwives Forum about rules and guidelines for preparing to engage playing with a single man (or men) with the hotwife lifestyle. Here’s a summary:
- 1. We both have the right to say no about a 3rd person at ANY time.
- 2. We both agree on the person we will actually have a 3some with.
- 3. We won’t meet anyone that we couldn’t be friends with.
- 4. We don’t play on the first meeting.
- 5. We never play at home.
- 6. We never meet at anyone’s home for a first meeting.
- 7. If anyone tries to come between our relationship they are history.
I’d say I agree with just about all of them–though we’re not always adverse to playing on the first “date.” It is preferable that we meet somewhere socially in public first–if only at a hotel bar for a few drinks to get to know someone.
Does anyone have any thoughts on these? Do you have any rules and limitations that aren’t in this list?
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Posted by David | Nov. 30, 2004 | Posted in Advice, Hot Wives | 3 Comments »
OH Wife and I have generally played by these rules.
Exception #1. She has almost always fucked on the first date, but only after getting to know the person via e-mail for a good length of time, and only after meeting him in a public location (usually a bar) and chatting for a few hours.
Exception #2. We are willing to play at home (harder to do as our son has gotten older). We had a MMF 3-some that lasted for hours, and OH Wife is allowed to play solo with one of her fuck buddies at our home.
Thanks Allie & David
I totally agree with your two points. We will play on the first meeting, though like you guys, only after we’ve chatted for some time via email or instant messenger, then after a social, public meeting.
We usually don’t mind playing in our home either–but only after we’ve really got to know our guest, and have played elsewhere. We’ll never play in our home with someone the very first time.
Still, those rules (or guidelines, if you will) are a great starting place for people that are trying to determine their boundaries.
–D.
Guess I should amend my exception. We defintely do *NOT* make it a habit to play at home. The 3-some and that *one* fuck buddy are it thus far.
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